In the journal, the author is a freshmen and get bullied for two years. She never met the the person who keeps attacking her. While the person is behind the screen and the the victim feel powerless and hopeless. The girl is an exceptional students with excellent academic grades and athletics. At first, she thought she could be the bigger person and ignore it, while, it is actually very hard to distance oneself from the situation and can’t help to feel frustrated. She cried multiple times and question her value as a person. Cyberbullying is hard to ignore when the attacks are so personal and so public. The comments are all about the things you care about and proud of.
The psychological development of a person is inseparable from the physiological development. Only the physiological development and the psychological develop consistently, can the human body and mind can achieve a healthy and harmonious state. Adolescence is relatively special time in a person’s life. In this period of time, people’s physical development is very fast, and the psychological development is relatively slow. The speed of physiological development and psychological development are inconsistent, resulting in adolescents’ unbalanced mind and body. This unbalanced state has caused many psychological conflicts and conflicts among teenagers, and their psychological levels are semi-mature and half-infant. Because of the rapid development of physiology, young people think that they have grown up. This strong sense of adulthood prompted them to have a sense of independence. The online world is rich and colorful, especially for teenagers who want to get rid of childhood, they are anxious to understand the world in the Internet and prove their growth. They no longer respond to parents and teachers, and they have a strong rebellious emotion. However, young people do not want to get rid of their parents altogether. They want their parents to support and understand themselves spiritually. However, many parents did not handle well the relationship with their children during this period. This leads to the majority of teenagers choosing the Internet, they vent their emotions on the Internet, and even hurt others to gain happiness. At this time, the moral restriction of parents and teachers in the minds of young people is relatively weakened, which has increased the occurrence of cyberbullying incidents to some extent. The negative psychological state during adolescence is mainly manifested in increased trouble, loneliness and depression. Although well-educated students are excellent among their peers, they are vulnerable to exclusion in classmates. The attention to the external appearance and their position in the group also affects the psychological changes of the young people A long period of negative state of mind can lead to distorted adolescents’ personality and form abnormal personality disorder. Many cyberbullying cases are due to the accumulation of negative psychological state over a long period of time.
Cyberbullying should cause the attention and thinking of the whole society. Researchers and related departments should pay attention to the seriousness of cyberbullying and take relevant measures to protect children. First of all, we should strengthen young people’s awareness of cyberbullying and cultivate their correct network moral values. When adolescents suffer cyberbullying, they should learn how to protect themselves from harm. Second, parents, teachers and schools should form an interconnected environmental system to provide a healthy network environment for young people. Let young people learn to use network resources correctly and avoid the negative impact on the network. In addition, relevant government departments should establish and improve the network legal system and use clear legal provisions to sanction cyberbullying.